Nau mai, heare mai, hoki mai ki to tatou 'Faenua'! Kei raro i te mana o to tatou Maunga tapu o Karioi. Kei waenganui i te mauri o Wai reinga. Kei roto i te whenua o nga Patupaiarehe. Hoki mai ki ona korowai aroha! Nga mini ki te Atua. Nga mihi ki nga tangata e wheturangitia. Nga mihi maha ki ta tatou kaitiaki o tenei wahi tino whakahirahira, ko Tinker, tena koe! Whakarongo mai ki te karanga o te tui, ko ia te karanga tuatahi! Ka karanga tonu ki a tatou, ake, ake, ake! Tena koutou katoa.
Welcome, come, return, to our 'Faenua'! Under the grace of our sacred mountain Karioi. In the centre of the spirit of bridal veil falls. Within the lands of the First Faeries. Return to their cloak of love! Praise to the divine, farewell to those that have become stars, many thanks to our guardian of this very special place, Tinker, we see you! Listen to the call of the Tui, for it was her that gave the very first call! She continues to call us on, and forever will! Greetings to you all.
A gathering for gay/bi/pan/queer cis men, trans men, and transmasculine people at Ruapuke Beach
Radical Faeries Aotearoa/New Zealand (RadFaeNZ) warmly invite you to join us in celebrating at Matawha, home to our most honourable and esteemed Tinker. Matawha is a beautiful farmland property at Ruapuke Beach just 25 km from the coastal township of Raglan. The gathering begins with the evening meal and opening ritual on Thursday 29 March, and ends after breakfast and the closing ritual on the morning of Tuesday 3 April
You’re welcome to arrive any time on Thursday afternoon, or if you are available to assist with setup in the week prior to the gathering please message Tinker directly.
What is a gathering?
It’s a time of creating community, a time to connect with the land and the seasons, a time for ritual and meditation, a time for sharing. We embrace each other as friends and lovers. We embrace ourselves as men who love men. We embrace the world we inhabit and this planet that gives us life.
The retreat is based on international Faerie traditions where activities and workshops are co-created. Anybody can propose and lead a workshop, ritual or other activity.
Matawha is a dedicated faerie space situated on 600 acres of rural farmland. It’s a comfortable 20 minute walk across the paddocks and down the hill to an effectively private beach. We’ll be sleeping in the tents we set up around Tinker’s house and permaculture garden. As well as the house there’ll be a marquee as a gathering space, outdoor as well as indoor showers, and an outdoor fire bath. Vegetarian food is provided and we’ll do the cooking communally. Conditions permitting there’ll be a bonfire night.
We’ll send you instructions and a map of how to get there when you register. Your Queen Registrars will be co-ordinating road transport from Wellington. If you’re using public transport, you’ll need to get to Hamilton and then take the bus to Raglan. There are three buses each afternoon. http://www.raglan.net.nz/about-raglan/getting-to-raglan/ If you get in touch with us, we’ll arrange for someone to pick you up from Raglan. There is no bus service on Sunday but for the return trip you’ll be able to arrange a ride with someone at the gathering.
Our gathering is an opportunity to leave the concrete jungle behind and be present with each other and on the land. We rely on solar power for lighting – so can’t operate high-wattage appliances like hair dryers, and mobile signal is variable.
The registration fee for the gathering is $170. This includes food, hireage of things like the marquee, gas for cooking and showers, and a koha to Tinker for the use of the property. Bank account is RFAERIESNZ 38-9018-0818186-00 (KiwiBank).
We’ll publish a statement of accounts for the gathering on our website after the event. If there’s any surplus over $300 we’ll reimburse that pro-rata to registrants.
Faerie Fee Fund
We operate a ‘NOTALOF’ policy – no-one turned away for lack of funds. If the registration cost is a problem please contact your co-queen registrars: firstname.lastname@example.org
Also, if you would like to contribute to our Faerie Fee Fund you are most welcome to do so. To make a contribution, include the extra funds when you pay your registration fee. Your Queen Registrars will sort the payment to those in need. Your contribution will be very much appreciated.
If staying in a tent simply isn’t you, then just 10 minutes’ walk across the paddocks on the same property is a B&B run by Tinker’s mum Jenny. If you want to stay there you’ll need to make your booking directly with Jenny. Here is a link to her website:
The cost of that is additional to the registration fee for the gathering and unfortunately we can’t offer any discount on the registration fee for people staying at Jenny’s.
We strongly suggest you abstain from recreational drugs and alcohol during the gathering in order to remain present and respectful to ourselves and to each other. Mainstream gay community spaces typically include alcohol (for better or worse); part of the goal of the faeries is to provide a space that is alternative the mainstream.
What to bring
Tent (if you haven’t got one, contact us—we’ll come up with something).
Eating utensils – cutlery, plate, bowl, cup
Home baking to share for morning and afternoon tea
Outdoor clothes and footwear (there are thistles if walking around the farm) and cold weather gear (just in case!)
Dress ups and drag
Games, glitter and decorations
Anything needed to run your own workshop!
Any questions, contact your Queen Registrars: email@example.com
Whakataka te hau ki te uru,
Whakataka te hau ki te tonga.
Kia mākinakina ki uta,
Kia mātaratara ki tai.
E hī ake ana te atākura he tio,
he huka, he hauhunga.
Haumi e! Hui e! Tāiki e!
Get ready for the westerly
and be prepared for the southerly.
It will be icy cold inland,
and icy cold on the shore.
May the dawn rise red-tipped on ice,
on snow, on frost.
Join! Gather! Intertwine!